The last time I had a relationship it ended up like sudden death. One phone call, and it was like a marshmallow that was left too close to the flame, a second away from
yummyness and it's already like chewing
melt plastic.
The day before, I thought -Wild, wild horses couldn't drag me away.
But she delivered something stronger than wild horses: her explicit desire to break up.
It was the same old spoiled woman story, I gave what I could inside my possibilities (and I admit it might not be enough). So, if I can't do as she says she would just talk about breaking up. She did it everytime she didn't feel in control, she never figured out how it felt, specially after such beautiful times we had before, she never figured out she was making me feel
worthless: all my effort and for one flaw she was tired of me.
So I played along. Hung up the phone, didn't answer it the following days.
She repented like I knew she would. But what would I go back for? To have her hurting me over at my first mistake or impossibility to please her. No freaking way.
On that phone call she took
the last train out of my heart.
Then I closed the station.
She came looking for me and I gave her what she gave to me: I made her feel unwanted, I left her alone and cold (I'm not that heartless, I asked someone to make sure she would be safe at home and to do all the damage control he could). Still, she knew how I felt the weekend before.
And I miss the fun, and I miss
Boris, and I have memories everywhere I look: my desk at work, my car, my clothes, my room, my body.
But it wasn't worth the pain. The
intentionally inflicted pain. That's not how I intend to spend my life, thanks. I forgave it before, I tried to see though it.
And ever since, things are simpler. I take myself out for dinner, I buy me gifts. Because most people forgets, that
one is the main character in one's life. It's not about being selfish, what I mean is that I must not let other people hold me down, that there are more trascendental things than being on time for a date, than taking care that someone is always happy, specially when that someone will treat you like crap because you had stuff to do at home and couldn't spend the day at hers.
She is missing out so much because of
one day. She's missing
the rest of a life together. How could she forget that?
Me, I don't feel
bad about it, it was all her making. I just defended myself ever after, and I don't need no train arriving.
I should have learned by now that love is an
emotionally expensive thing, and I can't afford it after some time.
I also should have learned by now that I'm a
nice and
fun guy, and I don't need someone around all of the time to feel whole and happy.
I have things that get me through it all. Lighttowers to look at when I have a storm inside: I restarted this blog because Mel still was linking to it. Maybe it was just because she didn't update it, but I felt like there was a space waiting for me. The unconditional mails from Gloria. Maricela, Hazel, Ana (even if she disappears in an alfish way), Enzo, Fobia, even the little Bastard. The people who is here even if I miss a birthday, even if I disappear; the people who is always happy to see me. This is
MY people (and cats), everyone else seems
seasonal but you. The people who manages to read these boring and massive posts, thank you.